Abumbi II, the 11th fon, or king,
of Bafut, Cameroon, has close to 100 wives. They weren't all his to
start with. According to local tradition, when a fon dies, his successor
inherits all his wives and then marries his own queens. He inherited 72
of the women from his late father. He has also taken on over 500
children from all of his wives.
"The queens have a great role to
play in the fondom," notes Prince Nickson, also of Bafut, noting that
it is up to these women behind the man to shape him in his kingly
role."Behind every successful man must be a very successful, staunch
woman," says Abumbi's third wife, Queen Constance.
"Our
tradition has it that when you are king, the elderly wives remain to
hand down the tradition to the younger wives, and also to teach the king
the tradition because the king had been a prince, not a king."
Despite
the fact that polygamy is legal in Cameroon, the data shows that there
are far fewer polygamous marriages across the African continent. The
practice is being challenged by changing values, the spread of the
Christian faith, the growing appeal of the western way of life but also
the rising costs of having large families. It is against this backdrop
that Cameroon's traditional rulers must walk the fine line between two
often conflicting cultures.
"During colonialism other values came
in, of governance, different from the traditional values we had and
therefore there is this constant conflict between the traditional values
and modern western values," admits Fon Abumbi II, who has ruled Bafut,
the largest fondom in the region, for 47 years.
"My role is to
blend them, to find the way forward so my subjects can enjoy the fruits
of development and modernity without destroying their culture. Without a
culture, you are not a human being, you are an animal. And therefore
the chieftaincy institution is the guarantor of our culture." "I
understand that we might be quick to judge the lifestyle of the kings,
but just like in the United Kingdom, African kingdoms and kings are
bound to a rich culture and history. (Practices) like inheritance of all
your father's wives is nothing but a moral obligation."
On
meeting the queens of Fon Ndofua Zofia II of Babungo -- one of
Cameroon's youngest traditional rulers -- Methu CNN correspondent said:
"All his young wives, forced on him by tradition, spoke fluent English in a French-speaking region and were great marketers."
It
is this seeming contradiction that makes life in the fondom fascinating
and confusing. Are they stuck in the past or keeping pace with the
present? Fon Zofoa III doesn't think you have to choose. He may have
"inherited" 72 wives and more than 500 children after his father's
death, but he considers himself a very modern king.
"To run a
kingdom nowadays in this era, you must be educated because things are
moving very fast. Like they used to say, education is light, ignorance
is darkness."
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Thursday, 18 June 2015
The African King With Hundred (100) Wives
Publisher GhanaThings.Com
6/18/2015 04:16:00 pm
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